The Book of Proverbs contains many practical insights into how to be a good friend.

You can trust what your friend says, even when it hurts. But your enemies want to hurt you, even when they act nice.

Proverbs 27:5 (ESV)

Say "no" to shallow and toxic relationships.

Instead, surround yourself with people who will embrace your imperfections while calling you out when you are not pursuing God’s purpose and calling for your life or pushing you towards being a healthier version of yourself. Surround yourself with people who will always tell you the truth—when it is due to you, not when it is convenient for them.

The best kind of friends are those who are willing to risk their friendship with you because they believe in you and will not accept your denial or excuses for why you can't succeed or why you're settling for less than you deserve in this amazing life God has given you.

There are numerous examples of such friendship in the Bible.

David had Nathan correct him. Esther had Mordecai on her side. Barnabas saw Paul's potential when no one else did. Jesus reached out to Peter after he had lost faith in himself and refused to continue with his call. Imagine where they would be if they didn't have friends who care enough about them to push them over their limits and rise above their own expectations.

We all want true friends, yet we are often hesitant of opening ourselves up to connect on a deeper level. Perhaps we are afraid of showing our vulnerabilities and being judged. The only way to eliminate these perceived feelings is to ask those who are already your close friends to be a part of your growth process. Allow them to talk openly and honestly to you, and don't be afraid to say what has to be spoken even if it might hurt. Words of wisdom and love may feel like a painful syringe jab, but a dose of "good medicine" will do you a world of good.

Focus on being a truthful friend to someone while seeking for people you can trust. Remember enjoying true friendship is not an entitlement, but a genuine gift we can give to one another.