If a child suspects that his father does not love him, he develops doubt, mistrust, and emotional distance. This can also impede the future growth in their relationship. No matter what the father does to show his love, the child remains suspiciously cold and detached. The only way to mend the relationship is for the child to recognise and accept the truth of his father's love.

Love rejoices in the truth.

1 Corinthians 13:6 (NIV)

 

The Greek word for “truth” is alētheia which means “what is true in any matter under consideration”. Knowing God's love is the greatest truth. When Paul says, "love rejoices in the truth," he means that God shares your joy in His love for you in Christ. There is no deception or falsehood in God's love. God has no hidden agenda to harm you, but He does have a plan to do you good.

Love delights in truth.

Let us reflect this quality in our interactions with others. Don't rely on hearsay or rumours. If you hear something about someone that contradicts what you know about him or her, take the time to find out the truth rather than spreading gossip.

Years ago, several church leaders had a major disagreement that split the church. They all refused to admit that they were wrong about how they handled their anger. However, one of the leaders was convicted by God's Word to reconcile with his fellow leaders. They were soon on their knees praying. A few weeks later, the Communists invaded their country, and all the church leaders were arrested. Their interrogators separated them and then told them lies about their fellow leaders betraying them. Surprisingly, everyone gave the same response: "I don't believe you, and even if it's true, I have already forgiven them."

Love is not blind. Love sees the truth, that is, the true person that God has created us to be in Christ. When we love truthfully (3 John 1:1), we value each other in the way that honours Go. This is cause for much rejoicing.