Jesus took Peter, James, and John, and brought them to the top of a very high mountain where they were alone.

Mark 9:2 (CEB)

 

Jesus recognizes the importance of having a close circle of friends who feel safe in each other's company and secure enough to walk through life together. Peter, James and John could be themselves in the presence of Jesus. They didn't have to worry about getting in trouble or getting punished if they didn't do something right. When they made mistakes, Jesus was there to showed them the way. These three men felt like they belonged not only to Jesus but also to each other.

Do you have such a friendship with other Christians?

It is easy to be a stranger in a crowded church. That’s why some people choose to go to a church with a large congregation. You can blend in, fade out, or go unnoticed. Going to a church isn’t about going in and getting what you want and then walking out, often without saying hello or goodbye. It is about growing healthy connections and relationships. This is because Christ has chosen us to be a community in which His love is shown and experienced amongst us.

We are living in a society where individualism is prioritized over community. This makes it challenging, but not impossible, to become the type of church community that Christ called us to. It is not about becoming a "friendly" church, but rather a closely knitted community of friends.

Friendly churches are subjective, as they are typically based on individual taste and preference. On the other hand, a closely knitted community of friends is characterized by complete acceptance, deep commitment, and unconditional love.

Our broken world needs a welcoming community of people who truly love and support one another. When we are open to the grace of God, we can truly live up to the words of Jesus: "This is how everyone will know that you are my disciples, when you love each other.” (John 13:35) We won't be able to do it on our own. We must work together to grow a community who share our passion for Jesus and are willing to embark on a journey with us. This will, in turn, enable us to make a difference in people's lives for God's glory and well-being of our community and city.